Name: You're Not Listening
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Author: Kate Murphy

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Chapter 1 The Lost Art

Most people confuse "hearing" (biological) with "listening" (mental). We often listen worse to loved ones due to the "Closeness-Communication Bias," a…

Chapter 2 Hearing is Biological, Listening is Mental 🔒

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Chapter 3 The Shift Response vs. The Support Response 🔒

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Chapter 4 The Closeness-Communication Bias 🔒

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Chapter 5 Listening is Not Agreeing 🔒

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Chapter 6 The Focus Trap 🔒

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Chapter 7 Gossip and the Limits of Listening 🔒

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Chapter 8 The Inner Voice 🔒

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Chapter 9 The Gift of Attention 🔒

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You're Not Listening

Journalist Kate Murphy explores the modern crisis of

listening. Drawing on neuroscience, psychology, and

interviews with master listeners, she reveals why we are

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