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Why Won’t You Apologize?

by Harriet Lerner, PhD
🎧 12 min listen Relationships

A life-changing guide to navigating the difficult terrain of apologies—how to give them, how to accept them, and how to heal when you never get one.

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Chapter 1 The Broken Bridge

Psychologist Harriet Lerner explores the transformative power of the apology. She dissects why some people can't admit fault, exposes the pitfalls of …

Chapter 2 The Anatomy of a Bad Apology 🔒

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Chapter 3 The Fortress of Shame 🔒

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Chapter 4 How to Ask for an Apology 🔒

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Chapter 5 Listening to the Pain 🔒

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Chapter 6 When the Apology Never Comes 🔒

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Chapter 7 The Myth of Forgiveness 🔒

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Chapter 8 Conclusion 🔒

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Why Won’t You Apologize?
Psychologist Harriet Lerner explores the transformative
power of the apology. She dissects why some people can't
admit fault, exposes the pitfalls of the "I'm sorry,
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